2020 was so hectic…I think most people can agree with that. The last 6 months flew by so quickly with working full time–adjusting to online teaching and balancing being a mum it was hard to find time just for me. This meant a lot of things ended up on the back burner– one of those things was editing photos. But I’m trying to have more balance in 2021 and make time for my creative and fun outlets–starting off right away I mean it’s only March. So bare with me as we go back to a few fun times that happened in 2020 as I document them here to remember in the future.
Let’s go back to the summer…it was a hot summer night. It was Friday, August 28th. We decided to go have a McDonald’s picnic at Scotsdale Farm and then had an impromptu photo shoot.
There was a filming that was going to start at Scotsdale Farm in the next few days so there was hay bales and some other props that had been brought in. It actually looked more like a working farm and was so much fun to see it in a new light.
She doesn’t have a poker face…I am always so amazed about how what she is feeling or thinking shines through so strong! I hope she never looses this trait.
Sisters! Darcy and Jordy had gone for a hair makeover earlier in the day… so to mark that occasion we decided to take some photos. Jordy was going to go to her new job in Windsor and Darcy was heading on her journey to get married and live in Texas.
They didn’t know when the next time they would see each other would be but they so know how to embrace the moment…and pack in a bunch of memories.
It was so much fun spending 2 weeks with both Jordy and Darcy. Watching them with Katie… reminded me of time I spent with them in Australia when they were 3 and 4!
1, 2, 3… swing!
Anything can become a stage when you are 2 1/2 years old and are wearing your favourite Dinosaur dress that twirls…
Darcy graciously snapped a few photos of Katie and I… reminding me I should be in front of the camera too!
“Sister. She is your mirror, shining back at you with a world of possibilities. She is your witness, who sees you at your worst and best, and loves you anyway. She is your partner in crime, your midnight companion, someone who knows when you are smiling, even in the dark. She is your teacher, your defence attorney, your personal press agent, even your shrink. Some days, she’s the reason you wish you were an only child.” —Barbara Alpert
I’m so glad that 2020 brought us back together… and I got to spend time with you as adults.
Katie and I miss you. Katie still refers to the one side of the basement as “Darcy’s side” and the big bed as “Jordy’s bed”. But are excited you are off having your own adventures and we can’t wait for you to visit again at some point in the future.
Today Katie and I went out to one of our favourite spots… Scotsdale Farm. I was taking a few photos for my friend to capture the end of her pregnancy before her baby boy arrives. I will probably share some of those photos soon.
Katie-bug was my assistant. She brought along her camera… and took lots of photos of the trees, and snow! I can’t wait until I get her a real camera. I am often surprised on my iPhone with a bunch of new photos she has taken when she grabs my phone. I got my first camera when I was 8, so I suppose she has a few more years before I can get her a proper camera!
Her camera has a kaleidoscope which makes the images look funny. So she prefers to shoot backwards–because then her subjects aren’t so funny looking!
Every day is a fun adventure with you Katie-bug… I hope you never stop smiling or making silly faces!
Life has been so crazy. With Covid, working from home, raising a 3 year old it’s sometimes a bit of a zoo..but I really miss creating and sharing stories here…so I’m going to try better for 2021. I’m honestly not sure if anyone reads blogs anymore…but I know that I miss taking photos and writing them. So even if no one reads I’m going to keep this creative outlet going!
Last night Katie and I went to meet up with Take a HIKE Caledon Ladies Hiking Group. Last week Mira organized a hike at Campbell’s Cross farm in their sunflower fields to help fundraise money to place a bench on the Caledon Trailway “The Great Trail” in memory of Karolina, Klara, Lilianna, and Mila Ciasullo.
Together with Campbell’s Cross Farm, the Take a Hike Caledon Ladies Group and Mom and Daughter Yoga with Bella and Anna raised a total of $1855.00.
The hike was sold out within hours and 45 members of the Take a HIKE Crew plus their families joined. (As normal Katie and our crew brought up the rear…stopping to take photos amongst the flowers while the rest of the group marched on!)
Together with the Town of Caledon and Glen Echo Nurseries the bench and plaque will now be ordered and the bench will be placed in a spot favoured by Karolina. Thank you so much Mira for organizing this hike plus the bench to be placed on the trail.
As we socially distanced and waited for everyone to join Katie go to check out the chickens…she was mighty comfy and didn’t want to leave this spot, but sunflowers awaited!
The sun was just started to set and it was a perfect August evening. We met up at 6pm… to take this little hike. I’ve been so thankful that on our adventures this summer Darcy has been able to capture some special memories of Katie and I.
Sometimes you just need go on a sunflower hike and dance in the field.
“Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows. It’s what the sunflowers do.” — Helen Keller
“Dance is the hidden language of the soul.” Martha Graham
“The job of feets is walking, but their hobby is dancing.” Amit Kalantri
“Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.” Friedrich Nietzsche
Thank you Mira so much for capturing the next three images…it was nice to see you. I’ve missed doing hikes, but totally understand how they have been postponed because of COVID.
It was the end to a great day!
Thank you Campbell’s Cross Farm for opening up your Sunflower Fields to us last night! If you are local they are still open to go see them until August 19th… *you have a few days! (check out their website for details).
Yesterday afternoon went to Terre Bleu Lavender Farm for an adventure. It is located just a short car ride from home on Sideroad 25 just west of Guelph Line. I have been wanting to visit here for a few years but the timing just wasn’t right until this summer. Visiting the farm right now is a little bit different-but still an amazing time. For this summer tickets can’t be bought at the gate…each week Terre Bleu releases tickets via their email subscriber list. This is to control how many people are arriving at the farm in capacity etc. We picked 3-4 to arrive…which mean Katie could finish her nap before we went off on our adventure!
It was such a fun afternoon adventure–it was hot, but honestly I hardly noticed! The smells of the fields…and just walking around taking photos made me so happy.
The first stop for our crew was to head to the Yellow Door Field…this was the part I had been waiting for…I had seen beautiful photos of people standing at this yellow door in the middle of the lavender field. However, I didn’t know that in order to get there we had to walk there on the “Yellow Bench Trail” through a 200 year old Cedar forest.
The Yellow Bench was occupied each time we passed through the forest…so we didn’t stop to take a photo…sometimes when you are adventuring with a toddler you pick the places you will wait to take a photo. Some day I’ll be back Yellow Bench–but today was not the day for a photo shoot!
My Bug…waiting for her turn to walk through the door.
The wait for the yellow door was pretty short…there were just 2 groups ahead of us! We had fun striking a pose in front of the door. Katie at this point had her camera out and was taking photos too!
“When you walk through the door, your worries are behind you and your joys are ahead!” this was a quote from one of Points of Interest Cards that are all around the Farm. The historian in me is a sucker for information and plaques at places I visit–but the ones around the farm have so much added info about the history of the farm. Also right now if you answer a few questions from the “Bleu’s Clues” you can get 10% discount in the store! So it’s worth the time to go seek them out and read…
At dinner every day I have started a tradition to talk to Katie about what her Favourite thing was she did that day. Today it was “Playing Peek-a-boo with the yellow door momma!” (I think this needs to be printed for my house).
Being a single mum and a photographer…I always have these photos in my mind I want to capture with just myself and my bug…but often after wrangling a Toddler–setting a timer, setting up a tripod etc is just too much work! I must admit I have a great stash of selfies of the two of us. But I’m so thankful that Darcy was able to capture these shots of the two of us on this adventure!
The smell of the lavender is so amazing…Katie was really good to smell, and not pick (except for this clover).
I LOVE this photo that Darcy captured of me taking a photo of my bug.
What do you do when your toddler takes off across the Lavender field? Well first you take a few photos…then you go collect them!
*She was walking between the plants, but I also encouraged her to RUN down the open rows between the plants after these photos were taken!*
There also was a little bit of wrangling, and convincing the toddler in our group which direction we had to go!
Sometimes when you set your camera up with a timer to attempt to do a group photo–your toddler decides that they have a better location to be captured in the group photo… so you just go with it!
One of the things I didn’t know.. is that there are a few art installations to take your photo at… this giant circle is pretty awesome and is at the far end of the Yellow Door Field.
I love this series of photos of my Bug and myself.
Today was the first day in a very long time that I actually felt like myself again. I was happy…I actually put on contact lenses for the first time since September of last year. I stopped wearing them at some point last fall around the time of mum’s death. It felt good to wear them & sunglasses again…I felt more like me than I had in a long time.
“Children are great imitators. So give them something great to imitate.” I know I have my many faults…but if I pass along a love for photography and capturing the perfect image my job is done!
It was so great to see all the bees–hard at work making honey!
We explored the farm and found the Herb Garden & Bee Apiary & Essential Oil Distillery…some of these places weren’t doing typical things like serving refreshments–but it still was lovely to wander around and see the areas.
We also stopped at Farm B for a visit on the way home. There are some pretty ruins you can sit in..we found a table with an umbrella to sit at and enjoy some Lavender ice cream…
Katie had more fun feeding me ice cream…then eating it herself. (You will have to go watch the video on my Instagram feed…it’s hilarious!)
She also explored the ruins…and quietly placed little rocks into this circle for a few moments…until she discovered I was watching. Then she promptly got up and ran away!
If you are in the area…I really strongly recommend going to the farm for a visit. The fields are lovely…the staff is friendly and helpful (from a distance). Masks aren’t mandatory in the fields…because you can keep a 6ft distance. But if you go in the store it’s limited entry–one group at a time & masks are mandatory.
When we went into the store… Katie was in the stroller and immediately said, “Oh Momma–look at all those Teddy Bears–I’d like one please.” I couldn’t say no… and I’m not sure what toddler would resist the gorgeous display of teddy’s. So “Milton” has come home with us… he is filled with a lavender sachet…and smells amazing! (I’m secretly hoping the lavender will help her sleep too!)
When the woman in the store asked her what the Teddy Bear’s name would be…Katie said, “Elephant!” and started to laugh. Then she declared, “I’m funny-I just joking!” We also talked about naming him “Lavender” or “Milton” (his actual name on the tag…) time will tell what this little guy’s name will be!
Playing in Galena -Sky Window… the plants are all starting to grow up and into this cool structure…
We didn’t walk up the giant swing…this visit…but next visit we definitely will!
Thank for a great visit Terre Bleu Lavender Farm…we will return again! Maybe in August when your sunflowers (new for 2020) are in bloom!
This summer Katie, Darcy and I have been hitting the trails doing some small hikes close to home. Today was our 3rd hike we have done together–all the hikes have been usually a 10-15min car ride away-today it took a bit longer because we had to wait for a train! It has been fun to explore Halton and have new adventures so close to home.
Today we all had a late start, but around 10ish we looked at the temperature and it was only 24C so we got excited and decided to go venture out for a hike. We were able to get everything we needed put together and were in the car leaving by 10:30ish.
“A visit to Limehouse Conservation Area is an opportunity to experience the natural wonders of the Niagara Escarpment as well as the cultural heritage of its past. The Bruce Trail and its side trails take visitors through a variety of Escarpment landscapes and even into its geological heart at an area known as the “Hole in the Wall”, where ladders cut through fissures in the escarpment rock. Credit Valley Conservation has installed and re-opened the bridge over Black Creek at Limehouse and the Bruce Trail has been re-routed accordingly, taking the visitor past unique natural and cultural features. Past to Present: Trails also take visitors past remnants of the Lime industry where they can stand before huge lime kilns and associated features like an old powderhouse. These cultural heritage resources of the 1800’s are representative of an important part of Ontario ‘s past associated with the Niagara Escarpment resources.” Source
Hiking has something I have loved to do and dreamed of the day I could share that with my children. The summer I was expecting Katie with my hiking group we did a series of 5 hikes to get a badge each were 10-15kms (I know I left you hanging… maybe someday I’ll go back and finish up sharing about that hiking series… spoiler alert: I did finish and I did get my badge!!)
Because of life the past 2 summers I haven’t been able to get on any hiking trails at all. So this summer wanted to I change that–let me tell you hiking with a toddler is so much fun.
You just have to be prepared. Make sure you bring snacks and water for both of you and have enough time to go at a toddler pace! I also have a MEC Hiking backpack (got it used off of FB marketplace has been the best $50 investment!- even though it’s missing the backpack that clips onto the bottom).
Katie usually starts off walking…then after our first break often climbs in for a ride…then often gets out to do the last km of our hike. Katie is now 34lbs…so hiking with that weight on your back is another fun way to get your exercise in! Today she walked probably 2kms then got a ride for about 1km…and then walked the final 2kms back to the car.
It’s also about knowing your child’s abilities and going with it. Today on the trail a couple asked if their son could handle the hike? I said, “I have no clue–a) I’ve never been here and b) I don’t know what your son is capable of”. You need to know your child’s abilities in order to assess if they can do activities safely…and at what level of risk is it for them.
All spring I have been working with Katie to build up endurance in walking so that we could be able to hike this summer some of the longer trails. We have practiced by walking on a nature trail behind our house and into the neighbourhood with a 3km loop. At first she would only walk a portion of it (getting rides in the wagon)… but now can walk the whole thing, but sometimes still chooses a ride in the wagon over walking!
You also have to be prepared to walk “a toddler km” pace… that can take anywhere from 15 to 35+mins! It’s so refreshing to stop and see the world from their level and eyes–what do they notice, what do they see… what catches their attention. Just need to keep that mind with meals/naps etc.
Darcy is an amazing photographer. I’ve been so lucky to be able to include a few of hers in this post…as well as share some of the ones she captures of Katie in action on a daily basis.
She and I have enjoyed bringing our cameras for our hikes–Katie has also decided that she needs to bring her camera! (It’s a little wooden camera…that she uses backwards to take photos!) But it makes the hikes extra fun–because often she says, “need to stop to take a photo momma–just a second!” (just like her momma–monkey see monkey do!)
This part of the trail is so much fun. They call it the “Hole in the Wall”–they have added ladders to be able to get down and walk thru the fissures of the rock in the escarpment. I was definitely glad to have a 2nd set of hands as I sent Katie down the ladder… (she wasn’t in the backpack yet).
Darcy at the bottom of the ladder and then on the other side of the “Hole in the Wall”.
Katie was so excited to go down the ladders…she talked about getting back to the ladders and really didn’t want to leave this spot on the hike. However, we were able to re-direct her attention so we could find new things to explore!
This whole area–can be pretty hazardous…there are lots of fissures and cracks you could fall into. So if you have young children make sure to hold their hands and not let them wander away from you. Katie has learned in our hikes so far this year that we need to stay on the trail. Today we added “need to hold momma’s hand for safety”. She is pretty good listening to these rules, and knows if she doesn’t I will just put her up the backpack and she usually likes her freedom–so she will stop and hold my hand!
Katie loved walking back thru the “Hole in the Wall” to the ladder.
When you hike with a toddler you need to get use to rests and breaks! Katie sat here on this rock and watched others walk down the hill that we just came down. Katie usually announces that there are people coming on a trail and we often get to the side to give them space to pass. (I think this might because I keep telling her she needs to give people space because of Covid-19).
The first time we crossed this little bridge Katie was in the backpack…it was so tight that I couldn’t even turn the other direction! On our return trip she was so excited to be over the water–got down on all 4s to see if she could see the water…then peaked through the railing to see the cool rock-bridge left over from the late 1800s early 1900s industry in the area.
The Limehouse kilns date back to 1800’s represent an important part of Ontario’s past associated with the Niagara Escarpment’s natural resources. The Lime Kilns operated for approx. 75 years (from the late 1840s to 1915). It would employ over 100 men at times. The kilns closed when more modern technologies became available, the quarries were being exhausted and the realization that blasting associated with quarrying was encroaching on the residential area!
This is one of the Draw Kilns…they date from the early 1870s. This style of kiln required 3 days to start up to get to heat the interior walls, but was considered an improvement over the ‘set kilns’ as they could be used constantly. The draw kiln was approximately 16 metres high–making the top of the kiln level with the quarry…so that horse teams could bring in the wagon loads of raw limestone to the opening at the top of the kiln. From my research it looks like this kiln is being worked on and restored. It’s behind a fence–because those rocks have been there a long time, but you never know when one might decide to come crashing down!
This is one of the remnants of a “Set Kiln”… this dates back to the 1850s. There was a row of them–each kiln was approx. 4metres in height and 2 1/2metres in depth and hollow with an opening at the top. Limestone & other ingredients were loaded into the kiln along with firewood. The kiln would burn for 3-4 days with wood being added in the fire holes at the bottom front of the kiln. A set kiln had to shut down and cool before the lime chunks could be removed out of the fire hole. This is what made the “draw kiln” more popular technology because it didn’t have to shut down to remove the limestone chunks–it was a continuous operation!
Here is a “Powder Magazine” or Explosives Storage. It was erected in the mid-1850s, is located in a slight depression of the old quarry floor to limit damage from debris in case of an accidental explosion. A secure storage place was necessary for the various explosives and gunpowder used in the blasting operations.
So many of my photos of Katie are blur and motion/freeze. No matter how fast my shutter speed is–she’s always in motion!
We met a Cockatoo on the hike today… His name was Danny. His owners stepped back to let us pass safely–and Katie was excited to see him!
Coming back to the ‘sitting rock’…watching people come down before we go back up to the ladders!
Another fun tip for us… is Katie has been so excited and loves to play “tag”…so to pick up the pace once we were past the fissure/cracks… we let her “chase” us, her running behind letting you know you were “it!” Even some strangers on the hike today got an “Your IT…Hi, Hello… Your IT” greeting!
It was a great day. We hiked 5.25km and it took us 1 hour and 42mins to complete. (This included our stops and snack breaks!). I was so happy to finally be able to have visited this place–been wanting to for awhile…I do want to go back at some point to do some more of the trails around and explore a bit more!